Juliet

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  • in reply to: I want a breakup #6714

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    People really need to think before breaking up with their partner. Some people break up just because they don’t feel the love like they used to, they forget that it’s not possible for one to feel the way they felt when they were one month into the relationship forever tho they might still love each other very much. What actually keeps a relationship is friendship and that tiny feeling deep down inside you that reminds you that once you leave your partner you won’t get someone better.

    A lot of people feel like breaking up once they meet another person that they end up having a spark with. They start to to feel like they love this new person more than their partner but they don’t know that it’s just the “beginners chemistry” that’s making them feel that way. They might stop liking the person after they’ve left their relationship then realized how much they love and miss their partner.

    So before you break ask yourself what your life will look like without your partner in it.

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  • in reply to: Tips on growing businesses #6709

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    Thanks guys. @blacknizer affordability is a good one but then what if the cost of production is high and one won’t be able to meet up if they sell the goods at a cheaper price.

    Quality is really really good cause most people settle for quality goods despite the price and there are a lot of rich people in Nigeria.

    Another one is availability. It’s really good for goods to be available at all times for purchase so your customers know they can count on you anytime.

    Keep the ideas flowing guys.

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    Successful people see opportunities in everything. Money can be made from everything it all depends on your marketing strategy. Successful people are risk takers while unsuccessful people fear risks. They hold on to the little they have too tight and that keeps them stagnant. They fear investments and they never want to leave their comfort zone. To be successful you have to be versatile, you have to try different things, you have to be a problem solver and a fast thinker. Think of problems people have that you can solve. People may not even know that it’s a problem until the solution arrives. For example we didn’t know that not having social media was a problem until it arrived. We didn’t know not having a soft comfy bed was a problem until it arrived etc. You have to be able to think of things people need.

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    Society puts more pressure on women because we are actually the future. We carry the children for 9 months give birth and also take care of them till we die. That’s like our sole purpose for being in this world (to keep the world alive) and that’s a very heavy task. But now men are actually abusing us and our willingness to be the home maker. Now everything is taken for granted and we no longer trust men to play their role as the loving and caring husband they’re supposed to be.

    It is right for a woman to be groomed to be the home maker but it is wrong for that to the the only thing she is taught. Some people say women are stronger than men and I think it’s because we can do everything they can and more (apart from getting ourselves pregnant) we can work and earn 7figure and we can make the house a home simultaneously.

    Please guys treat women with love and respect. That’s all we really want.

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  • in reply to: Awful things husbands should stop doing to their wives #6677

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    Every person’s behavior is psychological and it take awareness at a young age for a change. Men that treat their wives badly might have actually watched their fathers do the same to their mothers so it’s like a reflective behavior and that’s exactly why they need to change so their sons don’t pick up that behavior and treat their own wives the same. Women make the mistake of not seeing their husband at his worst before getting married. They just fall and settle for the sweet side like it’s going to be like that forever then when they get married they get treated more like properties and less like a human being.

    Before getting married watch closely how a man treats his mother and sisters cause that’s exactly how he’ll treat you.

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  • in reply to: Health Benefits of Coconut Water #6373

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    Nice one. Coconut water is also good for the skin as it makes you look younger and it makes your skin smoother. You can use it as a face cleanser. Apply it to a cotton wool and clean your face and neck with it you’ll see great results.

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  • in reply to: How far will you go for me? g #6372

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    No you don’t. These days there are fake people everywhere. They pretend to be helping you just because right now it’s easy and even if they’re not putting in any effort you feel like they are. It’s really hard to find someone who even though things are hard keeps trying his best to help though it doesn’t seem like he’s doing anything at all he doesn’t just give up. Someone who is will to go out of his way to help you and stand with you through hard times. If you ever find someone like that do everything you can to keep em.

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  • in reply to: Is Marriage a Do or Die Affair? #6371

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    People result to harming their spouse for betraying their trust because of the way they trusted them with all their being. They were more than hurt emotionally and couldn’t control the hate that grew inside of them. I’m not saying it’s right. It’s very wrong to take another person’s life.

    Love is a drug that isn’t easy to quit so some people turn it to hate just so they can feel something else and that’s the case where we hear of people killing their spouse. This is a good reason why you need to know who you’re dating or getting married to very very very well.

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  • in reply to: Tale to Tell our Children #6370

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    Our children should be told about our ancestors and their way of life and how the Europeans came and spoilt everything in Africa by stealing our land, natural resources and people. Our children should be told about black love and how to put their race first before any other.
    Our children should be told about the great kings, women and warriors of Africa. They should be told about how interracial relationships can erase our blackness.

    Our children should be told a lot about Africa so they can be great like their ancestors.

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  • in reply to: when is the right time? #6369

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    I think the best time to go into something is when you’re prepared for it mentally. People procrastinate because they’ve not been able to wrap their minds around whatever plan they want to execute.

    Delay and procrastination are two different things. Delay is when you’ve wrapped your mind around your plan and you’re ready but then something comes up. But procrastination is when you’re not ready at all and you keep telling yourself tomorrow I’ll be ready or tomorrow I’ll do but then you don’t actually put any effort towards doing what you want to do.

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  • in reply to: Sex and love, which is more important in marriage? #6368

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    Sex and love are like 5 and 6. They shouldn’t even be compared because they go together. Love needs to be there before sex but sex need to be there to strengthen the bond. You can have really good sex with your stubborn wife and she’s become really calm and obedient after. Love doesn’t make children, sex does.

    Sex should be an essential part of any relationship because without it the relationship won’t work. Sex is like fuel while love is like a car. It’s nice and all but won’t function without fuel.

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  • in reply to: Marriage and the Loss of Identity #6367

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    Well for me I feel changing of women’s name isn’t a big deal and it also isn’t a must. Some women keep their surnames even after marriage but it’s only right to change your name since it’s tradition. We Africans are always trying to live like the Europeans and it’s quite disgusting.

    Answering Mrs (your husband’s name) actually makes people respect you more. For instance you walk into a bank a the male banker sees you as a young beautiful lady that you are and is already plotting in his head how to ask you out or get you number because he has already sexualized you then your friend walks in and is like heyyy Mrs princewill how are you doing etc. The respect the male banker didn’t have for you the first time will automatically appear though he may still want to ask you out.

    Let’s say you and your husband get invited to a big event but your husband is busy and you go to represent both of you. Once you’re called as Mrs (your husband’s name), everyone will automatically have a litte respect for you. There’s no logic behind it it’s just the way it is. Plus the husband is the head of the house and you answering his name indicates that you’re under him and that’s a good thing.

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  • in reply to: 'Love' or 'Arranged' marriage, which do you think is better? #6366

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    Love will always be better than arranged marriage because when you really love someone no matter what happens you still try to stick to that person. If a marriage is arranged, both parties may not even know each other well and that might lead to a lot of misunderstanding and that’s not something anyone wants in their marriage. Love should be the main reason why you decide to spend the rest of your life with a particular person. Love may not always be the way we expect it to be but it will always bring you back to each other if anything were to come between you guys.
    Bottom line is Living with a stranger isn’t even an option for me.

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  • in reply to: white privilege exists in africa #5933

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    We can’t talk about white privilege and not talk about Christianity. The first ship that took people from Africa to be turned into slaves was named Jesus and that was before Christianity was brought to Africa. When you control a man’s mind you don’t have to worry about his actions. How can we not see whites as superior when each time we close our eyes to pray we picture a white man as the son of God. That alone automatically makes us think the whites are superior. Christianity was used as a tool during slavery to make black men bend to the white man’s will. They made us think we’ll have be rewarded in heaven as long as we obey and behave on earth while they steal Africa’s wealth smh. What’s really sad is the fact that they still control our minds.

    When you hear “white woman” I know the first thing that comes to your mind is “beautiful”. That’s the psychological effect slavery has on us all. They made us hate our skin, hair, facial features and culture while they try to be like us. It’s really sad that most of us can’t see them for what they really are will still be willing to die protecting them. They are our natural enemies.

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  • in reply to: Daddy Freeze and Bishop Oyedepo #5841

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    The whole Christianity thing is now a family business thing. Everything now is about money even though these “men of God” try to make it look otherwise.

    When the “church” wants to build or buy something they ask the members to donate or whatever word they use but when the members have problems they can’t come to the church and ask for help. The church is supposed to cone together and help members just as members come together to help the church but no we’ll be rewarded in heaven.

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