CHIJANN

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  • in reply to: Parenting 105 #11304

    CHIJANN
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    @samson As for me, the right age to sexually educate them is when they reach 18years of age.
    At 18years, they are adults
    My thoughts though

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  • in reply to: The Funeral #11303

    CHIJANN
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    It is believed that a person should be celebrated the day he/she is given birth to and the day he/she is being buried.
    Most people believe their dead loved ones spirit can never have rest unless they give them those burial rights -which include those music and feeding you are complaining about.

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  • in reply to: The Funeral #11302

    CHIJANN
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    @samson Your ‘write-up’ is nice but it is not just like that
    In as much as one has to feel grief/sorrow over a loved one’s death, one should also have at the back of his/her mind that the dead is dead and gone forever and the ‘living’ must go on
    If you like don’t eat for one year because of your loved one that died,it won’t change anything, instead you will be doing yourself more harm than good since you can develop a sickness due to lack of feeding.

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  • in reply to: Living With Others #11298

    CHIJANN
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    @samson I have seen people who have the interest at heart to give/contribute to the welfare of ‘joint living’ but cannot, not because they are selfish but because they don’t have.
    So before entering into dispute with anybody you are co-habiting with, try to find out why he/she is not contributing. Is he/she not contributing as a case of ‘Selfishness’ or as a case of ‘Don’t have’
    In the case of helping out in home keeping, instead it will be causing disputes, you make a duty roaster so that each person will know when it is his/her turn to do this work or that work.

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  • in reply to: Thinking aloud. #11290

    CHIJANN
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    @iyke I feel you are saying that ’empty vessels make the highest noise’ and that he who has made it should not be bragging.
    Some people insult others when they feel they have made it and make a lot of noise with their wealth. They boast openly with their wealth.
    @nonchalant Speaking out and making noise are different things altogether. A humble person can still be outspoken.

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  • in reply to: Action required. #11289

    CHIJANN
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    Most people live in the world of fantasy instead of reality. When they enter into a relationship, they allow the euphoria of the association to carry them away
    No definition of wants and needs are stated until it becomes too late. By then complaints every where

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  • in reply to: Love extinct. #11288

    CHIJANN
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    @iyke I took time to read your thread line by line. The story is touching.
    Since the lady did not come out to say that you offended her in any way, my brother, your hands are clean.
    Forget everything and move on with your life. I know it will not be so easy considering how close you were with the lady but you have to try. With time, you will get over it
    The truth of the whole matter is that the lady in question is not meant for you, so move on with your life until you meet your own rightful lady
    Remember the saying that-‘EVERY DISAPPOINTMENT IS A BLESSING’

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  • in reply to: Identity Thief #11287

    CHIJANN
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    All matters concerning someones banking activities I think are better settled in any of the branch office of the bank in question.
    One should never never give his sensitive account details to anyone outside the bank premises.
    Always ignore calls telling you this and that about your account but physically visit any of the nearest branch office of your bank if need be to discuss in person with the customer care.

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  • in reply to: How to delete posts #11286

    CHIJANN
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    @adminguy I will like to delete the thread which I mistakenly posted to Site Matters The thread is ‘DB’. I actually wanted to post it to ‘Specialist Topics’

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  • in reply to: Sonia’s Dilemma #11277

    CHIJANN
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    To me I feel that someones career is most at times very closely related to the persons purpose
    One can not easily separate the two. It is always the purpose one wants to achieve in life that always pushes him/her to the career he/she chooses/tries to choose.

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  • in reply to: WRONG REASONS #11269

    CHIJANN
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    Most relationships are entered into wrongly because of material wealth.
    When the wealth disappears along the line, the relationship crashes
    Some people enter into relationships because their parents are friends and want them to, not because they love each other but because they want to pacify their parents who have been long time old friends.
    Some enter into relationships considering ‘Class’, not love/intrest, along the line, everything might crash.

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  • in reply to: YOUR BODY, YOUR CHOICE #11267

    CHIJANN
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    To some men, ‘Sex’ bonds. When they remember how it went, they conclude they must live with the lady ‘as husband and wife’ no matter what you tell them
    These type of men will even drop a lady the are in courtship with, if the lady refuses to give them sex.

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  • in reply to: CAN YOU IMAGINE THIS?? #11266

    CHIJANN
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    This is ‘Naija’, have you forgotten?
    And in Naija, everything thing goes
    I don’t think I will be all that surprised to see an army officer in uniform trying to forge a document.

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  • in reply to: KICKING THE AIR #11263

    CHIJANN
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    @juliana You should not be discouraged. There is a saying that goes like this -“You do not know bad market from morning”
    So it is too early to judge. Things might get better.
    Super Eagles might fly.

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  • in reply to: MY RIGHT MY WRITE #11248

    CHIJANN
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    @aezolase The pen is mightier than the sword. It gives no physical wound but can pierce through ones heart.

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