February 10, 2018 at 10:45 pm #5537
There was once a one-year old boy, He was playing with a knife as a toy. He was having a real great time, how nicely did his lovely knife shine.
Then came the father, got the surprise of his life. As fast as he could, he took away the dangerous knife. The boy felt treated unfairly and started to cry. His pleasure ended abruptly, he didn’t know why.
His tiny mind was not developed enough to understand that it was his father’s love that was the reason why the knife was taken away. No way he’d understand what happened that day.
It is also impossible for any of us to understand the why of a tsunami or sudden death of a friend. We can go as deep as we can, we can try but we never will reach the true answer to why.
Just our human mind’s capacity is far too small for us to understand the ultimate reason of all.
I believe a supreme reason exists for everything, sometimes we just have to accept what is happening…(No Ratings Yet)Loading...Thoughtful Comments: 0.
February 13, 2018 at 10:27 am #5638
As a kid, I was very good at table tennis. The older boys in my neighbourhood would take me from one street to another to play against others, placing bets on me. I won them a lot of money and they bought things for me. Once one of them was threw away a cigarette stub. I picked it up and put it to my lips. The knock another gave me is still a sharp memory. they threatened to beat me if they saw me with a cigarette.
Some weeks later, I carefully gathered the stubs of cigarettes they smoked and hid myself in our bathroom. The smell must have alerted my mum. I got a sound beating from my mum. A few hours later, my aunt showed me a packet and asked me to read what was on it. She asked if I wanted to die young. Patiently she explained why I was beaten, why I should not smoke, etc. After that, I never touched a stick of cigarette. I wouldn’t go on errands to buy it nor use my money to buy for anyone.
My point is this, if the older boys had taken time out to tell me why I was given a knock and why I must not smoke a cigarette, I wouldn’t have had a serious beaten nor served a punishment of ‘ride a bicycle’ for an hour.
Linked to the thread, one must never assume that a child is too young to understand an adult’s action or reaction or events happening around him. In the same vein, it is mystifying why we are all too happy to give into some mysterious power at play when something happens. It is not out of place for human to understand supreme reasons for things, and we do not have to ‘just accept what is happening.’
Humanity’s refusal to accept sickness, ageing, and death and work at finding solutions accounts for medical and technological breakthroughs. These breakthroughs of course started from philosophy and man’s attempt to understand the whys and whats of his existence.
I lost my older brother to Lekki Beach in 1997 and someone said we could not understand God’s reason for taking him. I disagreed. We could understand if He told us why. If it was his grand plan for my brother to die a horrible death -drowned at sea and parts of his body eaten by fish, I needed to know. I still do. The reason I still believe in God is that there is no supreme reason for this disasters. There is no grand plan for tsunamis, road accidents, etc, and we must stop attributing all phenomenon to a round table of a god and angels who sit above and decided who dies, how, when and where they die. If there truly is, then there is nothing loving or kind about that.
So it will be great to know the why of things. It helps to deal with loss more. We are not weaker for having knowledge. It helps us to make informed decisions about how to live or not live.(No Ratings Yet)Loading...Thoughtful Comments: 10. 10 (insightful)
February 14, 2018 at 8:55 am #5668
Everything that happens in life has a particular reason and purpose. It might occur according to our plans and most time, it goes contrary to it. We are happy when it goes well according to our plan, and when it seems not to, we ask WHY.
When I was a little boy, I always asked myself why I was born in Nigeria, why not on beautiful countries like the USA, england, Germany etc, little did I know there was a reason for my existence as a Nigerian. My country might not be the best place in the world, but it has taught me a lot of things which I’m not sure I’ll learn in any other country. So instead of wasting time on asking why, we should learn to move on and take life the way it is, in every experience we come across, we should learn something from it(No Ratings Yet)Loading...Thoughtful Comments: 0.
February 22, 2018 at 5:48 pm #5912
The story of why? Is the topic of this thread, if you say everything happens for a reason, why do some people die lamenting about a lot of unexplainable things that happened in their lives, “happens for a reason” I think we should eventually realise why a certain thing happens at a certain time,or do people just use that to console thier selves for not being able to explain mysterious happenings in their everyday life?(No Ratings Yet)Loading...Thoughtful Comments: 10. 10 (interesting)
February 25, 2018 at 11:25 am #6137
They story of why can be justified with time. There is time for everything under heaven.
As a kid I found it difficult to differentiate between me and my cousin brothers who are mostly business tycoons. They are healthy and wealthy with lots of attractive properties everywhere. I envied them so much for the way they live their lives, thinking I will take a shoulder from them after I told them my mind. To my surprise, I got disappointed when they gathered money for me to be board in a seminary boarding house, explaining to me that with “Time” I will come to join them. I thought of it for years and realized that we are not all the Same, we always seize to understand “why” things are the way they are. hoping in another form of life while we have ours to fulfil. Honestly with time I thought less about business and built my life with what makes me happy.
Most people do cry over a spilt milk without knowing nothing goes for nothing. I bless the day I understand that I only have to do what matters. No matter what happens I should be myself and follow my head.(No Ratings Yet)Loading...Thoughtful Comments: 0.
February 25, 2018 at 1:34 pm #6150
The story of why is usually a waste of time especially in supernatural cases because we just never get God sitting us down to explain so why ask?
Ofcourse everything must have a reason but we need not know all Infact some are even better not known. Imagine God telling us his reason for the great flood was to wipe out evil and you are like why do we still have evil or his reason for planting the devil on earth is to send some of us to hell?
Man, I’d rather not hear that and live with my better speculations.
But about raising kids, reasons are paramount. if they deserved to be scolded or punished they deserve to know why…and with a well explained reason they can desist from such act even in your absence.(No Ratings Yet)Loading...Thoughtful Comments: 10. 10 (interesting)
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